What’s your Why??

Finding the drive to get after it everyday sometimes can be challenging.

Finding your Why?

Why are you pursuing a better life for yourself? Why are you putting yourself through pain? Why do you care so much?? Why, why, why??!

This burning question is deep down in all of us and if you find the answer to Why! Then the drive and the pursuit is easy.

I invested in a house that I have been flipping. Tremendous amount of work for anyone who has ever tried such a feat knows however, my significant other is not on board with me and has grown sick of me working on it so much. I have gone through lot of hard ship between us, arguments. Understand that this is not thier dream it is mine and I must own it or it will own me.

Through all this pain if arguments, feeling as though I just need to seperate but, lose everything in the process. Came a point where I broke down and felt empty inside as though all this work was for nothing. As though there was no point to keep moving forward with the constant battle between us. At that moment as I was feeling empty I asked myself why? Why the fuck should I keep busting my ass if noone is going to appreciate the hard work I do. And within a moment everything came clear to me. As though right in front of me all along. I started my pursuit to be great not for me but, for my son! I owed it to him to give it my all regardless of I end up losing it in the end. See it has never been about me but, my son deserves the world!.

Perspective drives everything!. I have healed the relationship with my spouse and have Balance in my life. Everyday we must strive to be better than the last.

Sometimes your why is right in front of your just looking to hard to see it. Find your powerful purpose.

Define Your Goals! Have Obsessions!

Be Obsessed with your Dreams!!. More importantly be obsessed with your loved ones!

Finding what drives you! To put in the effort. Not going to be easy but, it will be worth It!!! Somedays easier than others but, have to put in the effort everyday! Regardless of how you might feel put the effort in.

Challenge ACCEPTED!!!

It’s easy to take things for granted in this life. Find 5 things you are grateful for today.

Always looking up!

H.